I’ve observed something: my woman appreciates being the dominant partner during sex. She prefers being on top, which I don’t mind, but the controlling element bothers me. Most of the time, he tells me what to do while cursing.
The problem is that this attitude turns me off during sex. I’ve informed her several times, and even though she apologises and says it’s not deliberate, she keeps doing it. She hit me the last time we had sex, which turned me off, so I simply left her on the bed. My question is whether this is normal behaviour for a girl or if she is attempting to frighten me in bed.
Res:
I don’t believe she is attempting to frighten you in bed, but I believe she is naturally the dominant kind in bed. If your wife is a domineering kind in bed, there is little you can do about it. It’s something she’s ingrained in her, and if she attempts to modify it for you, she’ll be the one moaning since she’ll no longer enjoy sex with you.
Sexually, it appears that the two of you are not compatible, in my opinion. I believe this is because both of you are dominant in nature. Nobody is subservient, and in order for sex to be fascinating, at least one of you must surrender to the party. So, until you two figure things out, I think it’s best to avoid sex for the time being. Communication is essential. Try it.
