- A Nigerian lady was left heartbroken over the messages her husband-to-be sent to her after they slept together
- The man had pestered her over the need for them to make love given that they were still going to get married
- After much persuasion, the lady consented but saw him change drastically after she told him about her pregnancy
A Nigerian lady identified as Darasimi Oyewole has lamented on social media after being dumped by her husband-to-be following her pregnancy.
Darasimi shared her WhatsApp chats with him on TikTok showing how he pestered her about lovem*aking till she finally gave in.
The man named Adedemeji Olawore pleaded with her to satisfy him, saying he needed to sleep with her as they were still going to walk down the aisle.
Darasimi reminded him that the beauty of marriage is for the bed to be undefiled and that they should wait till after their wedding. Eventually, she gave in, and they made love more than once.
As seen in the chats, she one day confronted him that she was pregnant and was shocked that he denied putting her in a family way.
He accused her of cheating on him and tagged her as a commoner who wanted to tarnish his image and family name.
“C’mon, do you want to tarnish the image of my family and I?
“Look, I Adedemeji Olawore will never stop so low to settle down for a commoner like you.
“Sorry, you were gullible.
“And I don’t want such a woman in my life,” his response to her reads.
Watch the video below:
The video went viral and below are reactions from social media users:
faithnnaemeka462 said:
“This is just the story of my life. Dear Lord please give me a good source of income so that I can take care of the precious gift you gave to me. She is six”
JessIca said:
“Am the child in this story thank God for his grace every day for me and my mom today he cannot stand in front of my mum table turn.”
ABIKE said:
“Even if this story is not real, this what we ladies go through in the hands of these unfortunate men, it is so heartbring. God bless all good ladies.”
JosyDC❤ said:
“Moral lesson of the story if you get junior sister go Join cult incase issue like this sup you go just clear the guy whole family soft.”
Shakeeroh said:
“OMG! I never even wish for my siblings to go through the pain I went through being a single mum. God bless all single mum trying so hard out there.”
Man dumps lover after pregnancy
In a similar story published on TUKO.co.ke a Nigerian lady who was abandoned by her lover after she told him she was pregnant with their baby gave birth a few months ago.
In a video she shared on her TikTok page, she revealed that her lover broke up with her even though he had been caring in the past.
Netizens advised the single mum not to cry over the situation and look focus on the future.