Having sex with my boyfriend is no longer fun. He is not sexy at all and he doesn’t know how to make me wet before penetration. I have tried talking to him but he is taking it the other way round. Like I am saying, he is not good enough which is not true. I just want him to carry me along when we are having a good time. The truth is during sex, he is the only one that enjoys it which is not fair. So, how do I make him understand I don’t enjoy sex with him and he is selfish during sex. Kindly Help!
The only way you can make him understand is by sitting him down and talking about it. Communication is key in relationship, without it, it’s a waste of time, energy and strength. Sex is something that should be enjoyed by both parties and not one sided. So if you don’t enjoy sex with him let him know or else you will regret it and the relationship will get toxic. I don’t think you want that in your relationship.
